Sunday, August 3, 2025

Part 2: London – The Outskirts, Left-Side Driving & “Old Old Old” Everything

After a smooth 2-hour Eurostar train ride from Paris to London, we were officially in the land of tea, red double-decker buses, and accents we can only dream of imitating. The best part about the train? No airport drama. No liquid limitations, no removing shoes, no playing suitcase Tetris at check-in. There is security, but it’s quick and painless—10/10 would recommend.

Life on the Left Side

We spent our first three days outside of central London and decided to rent a car. Here’s a fun twist: in the UK, the driver sits on the right side but drives on the left side of the road. Cue the nervous laughter. We splurged on total insurance for the BMW X2 (good call), because hubby may or may not have gotten a little too close to the pavement a few times—rims included.

Driving in London isn’t exactly fast-paced either. The speed limit is 20 mph in most areas, so a simple 3-mile trip can easily turn into 30 minutes once you factor in traffic. And just like in Paris, bikers are everywhere—and helmets are not required, which made my nerves spike every time someone zipped past the car.

And then there’s country driving. Many two-way roads in the countryside are really just one-lane roads with a dream. If another car approaches, one of you will need to pull way off to the side so the other can squeeze by. Add hedges and stone walls on both sides, and it’s… memorable.


We road-tripped through the Cotswold villages (storybook charming), Castle Combe (tiny and beautiful), Richmond (because Ted Lasso fans must), West Horsley (to visit the now-infamous Ghosts UK manor), and even made it out to Stonehenge to see those iconic prehistoric stones.

One highlight was the Trout Farm shop in the Cotswolds, where the kids got to feed fish in the ponds before we sampled fresh trout ourselves. It was a simple but surprisingly fun experience that broke up all the history stops.

Pro tip: Download maps ahead of time! There were several stretches in the countryside where we had zero signal, and Google Maps saved us from becoming permanently lost in the English countryside.

Dress for the Mush

If you think summer in London is all sunshine and tea on a patio, think again. It’s cold, rainy, and puddle-heavy. One moment you’re zipping up your jacket, the next you’re peeling it off because the sun decided to show up for 4.5 minutes. Pack for layers and shoes you don’t mind getting muddy.

Also, London dresses more casually overall, so don’t stress too much about being “put together.” Paris, on the other hand, is noticeably more fashion-forward. People there dress—effortlessly chic and polished. But don’t let those TikTok or Instagram photos of people in flowy dresses in front of landmarks fool you: it’s windy. If you try the same, your dress will be horizontal before you can say, “Eiffel Tower selfie.”

Big Bus: Not Quite Paris

We decided to use the Hop-on Hop-off Big Bus to hit the major London landmarks. While convenient, I’ll just say this: Paris spoiled us. London’s Big Bus drivers weren’t nearly as friendly, and the buses didn’t seem to come around as frequently as other companies. But it still got us to the usual tourist hits: Tower of London, Big Ben, Westminster Abbey, and more.

We even stopped by Leadenhall Market where the entrance to the Leaky Cauldron in Harry Potter's is. 

Windsor Castle? We skipped it. After a few days, we felt fully “medieval’d out.”

Technically, every major attraction in London is like a museum stop—complete with collections dating back to medieval times, from armor and cannons to swords and royal artifacts—but these require paid tickets. The actual museums we visited didn’t require entrance fees (with the small exception of the Florence Nightingale Museum, which we visited while in central London and does charge a fee). It’s advisable to book ahead online to skip the queue. If you’re like us and just wing it, you can join the non-ticket holders’ line, which moves along fairly quickly.

When we weren’t using the Big Bus, we relied heavily on Uber for getting around, which was straightforward and far less stressful than figuring out the maze of public transport.

Staying Outside vs. Central London

We stayed 3 nights in the outskirts of London, and 3 nights in central London —and the price difference was jaw-dropping. About $400-ish a night (The Lensbury) compare that to $800 in central London (we stayed in Premier Inn Waterloo Lambeth). They're both wonderful in my opinion.

London Impressions

The things that stood out the most?

  • Red double-decker buses everywhere
  • Those iconic black “hackney carriage” taxis
  • And the endless, old old old homes, mansions, places, castles and buildings that make you feel like you’re walking through a history book.

London has a different vibe than Paris—grittier in some ways, but equally full of charm and character.

Tips & Tricks for Families with Teens

1. Break up the history overload. Teens can only “ooh” and “aah” over so many old buildings before their eyes glaze over. Mix in hands-on stops like the Trout Farm shop or Stonehenge.

2. Add photo op stops. Harry Potter fans will love Leadenhall Market and Platform 9¾ at King’s Cross Station.

3. Rent a car (if you dare). But remember: country roads are narrow, and city traffic is slow.

4. Download maps ahead of time. Signal can be spotty in the countryside.

5. Watch the bikers. They’ll zoom past from every direction, helmets optional.

6. Pack layers. Weather changes every 10 minutes.

7. Don’t overschedule. A café break with hot chocolate can save the day.

8. Cash isn’t necessary—except for toilets. Some public toilets in central London require coins to enter.

Monday, July 28, 2025

Part 1: Paris – Celebrating Our Daughter’s Sweet 16 in the City of Light 🇫🇷✨ (created by ChatGPT)

This summer, we celebrated our daughter’s 16th birthday with the trip of a lifetime – Europe! Paris was the obvious starting point since she’s been taking French in high school, and as huge fans of Ghosts UK and Ted Lasso, we couldn’t skip England either. But first… Paris!


Disneyland Paris – The Kickoff 🎢

We started the trip with three days at Disneyland Paris. As Californians who adore Disneyland Anaheim – the original – it just didn’t measure up for us. I’d rather say nothing more than overexplain… so I’ll leave it at that. 


Paris – The Real Adventure Begins ✨

After Disneyland, we headed into the heart of Paris and checked into Hotel Art Eiffel. It was a bit rundown (creaky doors, worn furniture), but the location was unbeatable. Shops, restaurants, boulangeries, and the Eiffel Tower were all just steps away. The metro stop was literally at the front door (though we didn’t use it much). At about $1,400 for three nights (two rooms for our family of four), it was pricey but convenient.

At one random moment, I looked around at the beautiful old buildings and had an ah-ha moment: Ohhh… this is why they call it the French Quarter in New Orleans! The architecture there is so similar to what I was seeing in France – of course, it makes sense now because of French colonization. And then I noticed how many boulangeries were on every corner. It finally hit me – these are the French version of donut shops! 


Sightseeing – Big Bus & the Louvre 🏛️

We kicked off sightseeing with a hop-on, hop-off Big Bus Tour, and it was worth it. You really do see Paris as it’s meant to be seen. We ended up at the Louvre with a guided tour, which meant skipping the endless lines (huge win). 

I’ll be honest – the Mona Lisa is overrated. What I really loved were the Renaissance paintings, Greek statues, and the Egyptian collection (only one mummy, though!).

One of my favorite moments? Watching my husband and teens (and me too!!) giggle and whisper like little kids every time they saw an artistic naked body in the museum’s sculptures and paintings. It was a reminder that, even in the middle of high art, we’re still just a family making memories (and trying not to burst out laughing in public).


What I didn’t love? The walking. You go down a flight of steps only to go up two more… then back down again. After a few rounds of that, I was cursing like a sailor under my breath. 🤦 Three hours later, we were all tired, hungry, thirsty, and a little snippy with each other. Oh, and the bathrooms? Not great. We called an Uber and retreated to the hotel after that one.


Hidden Gems – Chinatown, Sainte-Chapelle & Missed Vintage Finds 🎶🛍️

We explored Chinatown, which honestly is okay to skip if you’re from California (especially the Bay Area). It scratched our itch for Asian food, but it wasn’t anything spectacular. (I think the kids are sick of me taking pictures at every moment. My hubby calls it the tax. You don't like to pay for it, but you don't have a choice. It's their tax to us.)

A highlight was watching a classical music concert at Sainte-Chapelle. We bypassed the usual long lines since the concert included entry, and the natural acoustics in that stained-glass wonderland were unbelievable.

I’d also planned to dive into vintage shopping – Paris is the city of fashion, after all – especially at the shops that sell by the kilo (you literally pay per kilogram of clothing). Unfortunately, I didn’t quite make it there this time. Maybe on our next trip!


Montmartre, Sacré-Cœur & Louis Vuitton ⛪👜

We wandered through the streets of Montmartre, soaking in its bohemian vibe and popping into little shops and cafés. At the top of the hill sits the Sacré-Cœur Cathedral, and wow – it’s stunning inside and out. The panoramic view of the city from up there was worth every step.

And yes, we took another trip to the Louis Vuitton flagship store… only to quickly realize we really can’t afford anything. I think the staff could see that too. 😅


Paris Chaos – Tour de France 🚴

Paris was packed during the Tour de France. Metal barricades lined the streets, roads were blocked off, and even crossing the street felt impossible at times. That made our first LV attempt impossible, and the city felt divided by fences, forcing you to stick to your side of the street.



Food & Drinks – Parisian Indulgences 🍽️🍷

I couldn’t bring myself to order foie gras (still working up to it), but the duck breast was amazing, and we had more than our share of escargots. And the cocktails in Paris? Absolute perfection.


Wrapping Up Paris

We left Paris with so many fun moments and memories. But as we made our way to the train station for the Paris-to-London leg of our trip, we were reminded that not everything goes perfectly when you travel.

Oh, and did we mention we got scammed by a fake ETA website while trying to get our entry authorization for the UK? Yep. Lesson learned the hard way – always double-check those URLs before you pay.

Paris was still the perfect start to our Sweet 16 European celebration. Between the Eiffel Tower views, the beauty of Montmartre, those random ah-ha moments on the streets, and even the chaos of Tour de France, it was a trip we won’t forget.

Next stop: London – the land of Ghosts UK, Ted Lasso, and a whole new round of adventures! Stay tuned for Part 2?

Busy busy busy...

Covid knocked the entire family off our feet... Darn thing knocked entire world off our feet unexpectedly. For more than 1.5 years, I've been busy doing what every mom did, busy handling our business, I'll go into details later.

With covid, the school went into virtual learning mode and work went into virtual office zone. We all ended up being in each other's faces inside our 1200 square foot house. We utilized every part of our property including our backyard for our video conferences. I used to have "me" time when the kids were at school and hubby was at work. No weekly spa or leisure stroll at Target made me so grumpy. I could've sworn they expected food and snacks 24 hours a day with everyone being at home. We used to have an office space -- but how can all 4 of us share a home office space? Within 6 months of covid, we ended up moving into a bigger house. 

The kids and hubby spent most of the time upstairs in front of the computers, ran downstairs for the lunch and stay upstairs till 5pm. When they're done, it's my time to be in front of the computer for Zoom classes (I teach an evening nursing program -- covid forced us to go online). During the daytime, I forced myself to keep busy which entailed many trips to local nurseries. I killed many plants which included so-called hard to kill succulents and cactuses. 

Along with our newly acquired house, we have an awesome pool and hot tub. No -- I can't swim and I refuse to dip in the chlorinated pool. YES -- I'm that fun mom. I keep on rumbling on. BUT anyways, the frustrating thing about covid is --- all the fun things we used to do, no more. I was forced to learn to cook, cut hair, do my own nails - oh lawd. The kids cannot play with their friends, no more spa days for me and definitely no more date nights either. What's worse, they are stuck in front of the computer and cannot socialize (even all celebrations stopped -- no Halloween, no Thanksgiving and definitely, no Christmas). 


How we "handed" out caption during Halloween 2020
(Sanitized hands, applied gloves, attached strings on treats, applied treats to rope.)

Their grades suffer, and the teachers seem to have no mercy. No extra help, homework doesn't seem to stop and I am forced to spend extra time and even with my graduate degree, I can't seem to understand elementary math. :( The teachers didn't like it when I said, "it's ok if my kids fail and repeat their grade level. Technically, no kid ever stuck or be in elementary school forever." I know it sounded bad especially coming from a teacher myself. My family' mental health matters more to me.


How about you? How did you or are you dealing with covid in your household?

Monday, November 29, 2021

holy mama... where did the time go? (getting in shape or not...)

I have no clue where the time went. "Just like that...oooh..." I think I watch too much TikTok is what's happened during the covid pandemic... And this pandemic sh*t is still happening and going strong. We are going towards 3rd year now?

We attempted to get in shape during the pandemic. We figured, pandemic can't slow us down -- we will get hot and strong, so we got our garage equipped with Costco equipment (treadmill and cable weights). That worked out for good 3 months -- now it's sitting in the garage. Our new excuse was, garage looked like crap, so we got our garage remodeled -- we even installed a TV inside the garage. Let's see what our new excuse will be in about a month. 

Everyday, we give an excuse of -- diet will start tomorrow. I'm afraid of getting on the scale. I'm afraid of the confirmation that I'm getting fat? The confirmation that I am indeed a couch potato? The Netflix marathon and the occasional cokes (everyday) is making me lose weight? The dust collecting on the equipment in the garage aren't from the remodeling? What?

Friday, July 30, 2021

To be or not to be (err...)

Am I a bad parent for not wanting to send the kids back to school? Am I bad for wanting to spend entire summer with my kiddos? I counted and it's only 6 more summers (with my 12 years old) and 8 more (with my 10 years old) til they leave the nest and go off to college and not even want to be with us or hang out with us. Is this what they call the toxic or helicopter parenting? Am I the mother-in-law in the making that no one want to deal with? Oh lawd. 

I'm also wondering why are schools letting kids go back to school so early? Am I getting too old and used to sending kids back to school after labor day? Now a days, kids are back to school in July or August. I mean, what is this so called, "year-round" school but they have these weird a week or 2 breaks in the middle. I mean, what are working parents supposed to do with those breaks? Really, it's a serious question - what do working parents do during those times? 

Lots of question in my mind

Sunday, July 25, 2021

(Post-Covid) Disneyland and Universal Studios Trip

We did it! 

We took the plunge and took our trip to Disneyland and Universal Studios Hollywood.

Overall planning phase: 

Disney started selling tickets on April 15, 2021 for Disneyland. I was one of those crazy psycho folks (no I'm not judging you!) who waited in the virtual queue at 8am on the day and did not know whether or not I was still in line or got kicked out or what's happening but had my faith in Disney until I got my weird countdown that it's almost there and finally bought my tickets at 8:33pm. (OH MY GAWD, that's a run-on sentence!! and I'm out of breath!)

Planning Phase - Theme Park Tickets

I bought my tickets online as soon as Disneyland announced tickets are available to purchase and made my reservations. Since I have let go of my season pass in 2018, I always get 3 days park-hopper. At this point, it's an additional $50/day per ticket for park-hopper. After I made my initial reservation, I cancelled it out and I changed my reservation dates to the 4th of July weekend at no additional cost. Basically, when you make your reservation, you must look at the calendar for the available days and select which park is available to start your day. At 1pm, you're allowed to hop your day over to the other park. (You really don't need the park-hopper IMHO).

Universal Studios Hollywood have no reservation system. As long as you have a ticket, you are allowed to go inside the park. Because we don't know how many days we want to be inside the park, I decided, it's cheaper to buy the Gold Pass. You can pay down payment and pay the rest over the next few months. 

Getting There


We initially planned to drive -- but in honest truth, our kids missed being on the plane (or maybe they're sick of being stuck with us for the last 1.5 years)

2 weeks before the trip, I noticed Alaska airline has a great deal on roundtrip tickets (cherry on top, they were first-class tickets!! -- I hopped on this so we won't be seated separately from our kids).

  • SJC -- LAX: 45 minutes flight (vs 8hrs drive)

because of first-class tickets, we got free luggage check in's -- we checked in 2 of our luggages (yes I'm an over-packer)

HORRIBLE ordeal: when we got to LAX, getting an Uber or Lyft was hell. Not even Black, BlackXL or XL were easy to get and we weren't able to get one for the next 2-3 hours. YOINKS!! We ended up taking a Taxi van to the hotel. Otherwise, Uber and Lyft are on par with driving time.

  • LAX --> Hyatt Regency (Orange County): 1 hour 
  • Hyatt Regency --> Sheraton (Universal City): 1 hour
  • Sheraton --> LAX: 1 hour
Accommodation: All reservations for hotels are made through Expedia. Due to covid, I wanted to be able to cancel if plans are to be shifted; and because I changed my reservation with Disney, I had to cancel out my initial hotel reservation with Expedia at no cost. 

  • Near Disneyland 
    • We stayed at Hyatt Regency in Orange County
    • Positives:
      • 10-minute shuttle ride: $3/day 
      • Kids Suite with bunk beds; 2 separate rooms
      • Cozy, family & pet friendly (pooches around)
      • Starbucks is in the hotel lobby so you do not need to go wait in a long line in Downtown Disney. HUGE plus!!
    • Cost: $191/night
  • Near Universal Studios Hollywood 
    • Good ole Sheraton at Universal City 
    • Positives:
      • Directly across from the park
      • FREE Shuttle
        • reason over Hilton: shuttle stops at Sheraton first
      • Breakfast buffet in the lobby (you'll have to pay)
      • Plenty of seatings in the lobby to lounge if your flight is later in the evening
    • Cost: $230/night

Are you going to Disneyland/California Adventure or Universal Studios anytime soon? or perhaps returning back again like us? It is really me who wants to go, but my kids --  not so much, they're not interested. 



    Monday, October 14, 2019

    Teaching My Kid to Lie to Get What We Want

    My son is 8 years old, and he's too damn honest in my opinion. He is not shy either.

    When we were in L.A., we decided to go on a side-trip to Dreamscape in Santa Monica It's a virtual reality game place where you reserve your 30-min time slot. You go on a virtual reality trip together with 5 other people who are in the group.


    When I was reserving online, I reminded my son multiple times that one needs to be at least 10 years old to play. He said he really wanted to play but he doesn't want to lie. I told him that we will try but there's a possibility that he doesn't get to play. When we got there to Dreamscape, I had him and his sister sat down while I sign the consent. During the check-in process using the iPads on the counter, I heard the familiar, "Excuse me?" With horror, I saw my son who went up the employee and asked, "Excuse me, one of us isn't 10 years old yet. Can I still play?: The employee told him, "Don't tell me your age." I waved at my husband to rescue us from the situation - my husband came by and took the little boy away as I continued with the check-in process. Then I heard the familiar, "Excuse me>" again. Oh boy! This time, he admitted it was him who isn't 10 years old and that he really wanted to play. The employee said it's ok, you can play.

    Yes, I am a bad mama who is teaching the kids to bend the truth but he's a saint who couldn't do it. In fact, he asked for permission even though there's a risk of him getting benched.. But in true honesty, I think the age limit is to make sure he can actually carry that fancy backpack with computer CPU and walk around with sensors on elbows, knees, hands and feet as well as a helmet on. I heard the CPU alone weighs about 15lbs. Yikes!

    Anyways, both kids had a blast. However, I felt bad for being unethical by asking him to conceal information to get what we want. I learned my lesson from my 8 years old son.